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It’s Time To Smash The Myth that Autistic People Are Poor Communicators
We’ve worked hard to compensate for deficits in neurotypical communication
An unfathomable chunk of the world’s resources has been dedicated to teaching autistic people how to communicate in socially appropriate ways.
We owe this deficit-based view of autistic people to the DSM-5 which stipulates a deficit in social communication as one of the criteria for an autism diagnosis.
The idea that autistic people are defective human beings reverberates through all through the information attempting to promote ‘awareness’ of autism. The message is you might need to give them a bit of help or at least a wide berth because they can’t communicate as well as the rest of us.
Children are taught ‘social skills’ in the hope that enough neurotypical behaviour will stick to them that they aren’t identifiably autistic by the time adulthood hits.
Then when it does, there’s well-meaning but cringeworthy initiatives like the Love On The Spectrum series that coached autistic young people on how to date like neurotypicals.
It’s assumed that becoming a better communicator means overcoming neurodivergent tendencies to adopt the ways of neurotypical communication.
